Explore Samantha & Darryl’s Intervention
1. Think about Master Skill 3: Create and Build Trust and Respect. What had Darryl been doing that failed to build trust and respect in his relationship? What did he learn to do during the intervention to help build trust and respect?
Darryl was looking for things outside of the marriage to satisfy his needs with work, investing, changing things up.
He learnt to be completely present no matter what.
2. What was Samantha’s greatest challenge with Master Skill 3: Create and Build Trust and Respect? What did she learn during the intervention that helped her improve in this skill?
She couldn't let Darryl in, She learnt to let him in,
3. What did Samantha and Darryl learn about Discipline 3: Emanate Your Natural Essence and True Core? How had they not been living this discipline prior to the intervention>
They learnt that it was safe to be yourself.
They had both put a shell around themselves.
4. How did Discipline 4: Positive Intent, show up during the intervention? How does Master Skill 3: Create and Build Trust work with this discipline?
Darryl promised to be there no matter what.
5. What does today’s session teach about Discipline 5: Freedom: The Power of Forgiving, Forgetting and Flooding? What impact does flooding have on Samantha and Darryl’s experience?
It turns them around.
Questions to Explore Your Life
1. How do you express Master Skill 3: Create and Build Trust and Respect in your relationship? How do you think you could increase trust and respect with your partner?
More attention - complete attention
2. If you are masculine: How do you react to times of stress or uncertainty? Are you rooted in the storm? How could you become more rooted during these times?
I flinch in Storms - I need to keep rooted
3. Do Samantha and Darryl remind you of anyone you know? What did you learn from Samantha and Darryl’s example?
Lots of people! It can be turned around!
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