DAY 8 – RECLAIMING YOUR PASSION: UNDERSTAND, APPRECIATE AND RELATE TO THE ONE YOU LOVE

Dealing with Different States in a Relationship

Think of a time that you came home in a peak state and found your partner in a low state. How did you react? Would you approach this differently today?

I slowed down and listened - asked if there was anything I could do.  Today I would make sure that I stayed well and truly in my masculine.

1. How do you and/or your partner experience Discipline 7: Polarity: The Power of Dancing Energies? If you are feminine, how do you show your feminine side? How could you step it up and show more of your feminine power to your partner? If you are masculine, how do you demonstrate your masculinity to your partner? What could you do to step it up?

I don't - I need to be strong and completely present, no matter what.

2. Do you embrace your spirit/light and animal/dark side? Which one is more dominant in you? In what ways could you embrace more of the energy you don’t use as often? Come up with 3-4 ideas. Could you make one of them a ritual?

I don't know - I'm at a loss. I do embrace my spirit side in  meditation, My animal side comes out in my work.,

I don't know.

Day 8: Action Plan
1. How effective are you at managing your state in your relationship? Where do you spend most of your time: in a peak state or a disempowered/low state?

Half and half, but the disempowered state is deeper and more dark.

2, Think of the last time you found yourself in a low/disempowered state. What were you focused on? How could you change that?

I was focussed on the actions and traits of those around me. I could ask a 1 percent question. "How can I make things better, if only by 1 percent?

3, Think about the decisions in your life. Can you think of one you’ve been avoiding? Is fear keeping you from making that decision? What would it take for you to step up and make that decision with courage, not fear?

Organising and communicating our finances as we pull ourselves back into abundance.

See it as it really is - not better, not worse - just as it is.